Carmelo Anthony has achieved a lot in his life at this point. He led Syracuse to the NCAA National championship as a freshman. He was the first pick for the Denver Nuggets 6 years ago, which on the outside, seemed to start a positive and success filled basketball career for the young Carmelo. Then his legal troubles started surfacing.
Carmelo was a part of a documentary filmed in his home town of Baltimore warning people of “snitching” (giving information to authorities) about things going on in the neighborhood. This same documentary had friends of his threatening to lynch Larry Brown (the Olympic coach at the time) if Carmelo was benched for any amount of time. He knew it was being filmed and should have known better. Those in the basketball world labeled him a trouble maker and a black eye in the NBA. On the court he was suspended 15 games for a fight that broke out with the New York Knicks in which Carmelo threw a sucker punch that landed on an opposing player’s face. He has been arrested and charged with marijuana possession, a charge that was later dropped because a friend took the blame for the marijuana. His most recent legal trouble found Carmelo picked up for a DUI while driving in the early morning hours on a Denver freeway. All in all Carmelo has had a horrible reputation and any dream he had of becoming an NBA icon was quickly diminishing because of his on the court and off the court antics. However, his participation on the 2008 USA Olympic Basketball team seems to have changed Carmelo for the better.
During these NBA playoffs there has been much attention given to the young Carmelo, however, this attention is not about his performance on the basketball court. It seems that almost any conversation about Carmelo on sports networks is giving credit for Carmelo’s on the court success to the fact that he seems to have matured greatly off the court. In an interview with ESPN Carmelo said that his exposure to last year’s Olympic team has impacted him greatly. He saw a team that was focused on being the best team, not a team of individuals focused on being All Stars. Carmelo talked of the work ethic that he witnessed and how he recognized that if he wanted to be successful in the NBA he would have to change his attitude and, more importantly, his off the court attitude.
A couple of weeks before the 2008-2009 NBA season started the Denver Nuggets traded for hometown hero Chauncey Billups. Chauncey Billups is a very talented basketball player but is better known for be a gentleman within the NBA. The Denver and national media have given Chauncey a lot of credit in Carmelo’s maturity. It seems that the last 18 months have changed Carmelo as a basketball player and more importantly as a human being. Carmelo Anthony has become a basketball icon and is one of the biggest stars in the NBA at this point. As a leader I think that there is a lot to be learned of Carmelo’s journey.
Carmelo Anthony is a leader. Not only because he can play basketball well, but because he is an influencer. I don’t know Carmelo at all, but I would bet that he never saw himself as much of a leader because great leaders don’t ever know they are great leaders. The difference is that Carmelo used to influence people in a negative way and now it seems that he has grasped the idea of impacting people and taking responsibility for influencing people in a positive way. What’s different about him? What changed? Again, I don’t know Carmelo Anthony at all, but I bet that the last 18 months have everything to do with this newly perceived maturity.
He has cut his hair and not only have his off the court troubles subsided, but even his post-game interviews reflect his new-found maturity. In this year’s NBA Western Conference Playoffs the Carmelo’s team played a physically grueling series with the Dallas Mavericks. This series got pretty chippy at times and tempers and emotions ran high. The old Carmelo may have mouthed off in post-game interviews but this year’s installment of Carmelo Anthony was cool, collected and very mature in how he handled questions from the media about the “dirty play” between the Nuggets and the Mavericks.
GREAT LEADERS SURROUND THEMSELVES WITH GREAT LEADERS
Carmelo’s experience on the 2008 USA Olympic basketball team opened his eyes to the way others go about their work. There is a lesson in this: sometimes the best thing we can do is put ourselves in a place where we are surrounded with people that are more successful than we are at a certain task. In Carmelo’s world it was surrounding himself with Lebron James, Kobe Bryant, etc… for me as a Pastor it is seeking out those who have been where I am at and are where I want to be. Right now I am seeking out conversations with Pastors who have been faithful servants of God longer than I have been alive. It is not horrible to surround yourself with people that are on the same level as you or are where you have been, but to grow personally and especially in your leadership ability you need to seek out people that are where you want to go. If longevity is what you are looking for, look for people that have been doing your profession for years. The reason we don’t do this is either pride or fear. Either we think we don’t need to seek out others to see how they go about their lives because we have it all figured out or we are too afraid of facing the truth about ourselves and in turn shy away from surrounding ourselves with those that have gone before us.
I encourage you to find people that you can talk to about your profession or career. What have they done that helped them become successful? What are their daily, weekly, monthly habits / goals? What are they doing that you are not doing and what are you doing that they would advise you not to do? It seems that these kinds of conversations have happened between Chauncey Billups and Carmelo Anthony and it seems to have impacted Carmelo for the better.
These are great questions to ask and to contemplate as leaders. I am personally very proud to see the maturity in Carmelo Anthony and I am thankful for his example of maturity and for the lesson in it for all of us. Is there a “Chauncey” you can surround yourself with in life? Everyone needs a “Timothy” in who they mentor, we all need a “Barnabas” that encourages us, and everone of us needs a “Paul” (Or Chauncey) who can mentor us. May you find yours.
Go Nuggets.